Coping with Transitions
Transitions are very difficult for children with autism.
It is an interruption to their day and a change in their
schedule.
In order to minimize difficulty in transition, try to keep
their schedule as routine as possible.
Always let them know ahead of time that a transition in
routine is coming.
Using sensory integration techniques can be very helpful
for some children.
It is best to have an occupational therapist work with
you to first determine if your child is hypersensitive
or hyposensitive.
Do they crave movement and the feeling of different
textures and stimulation or do they avoid movement and
textures.
For example, a young autistic boy who had a great deal
of difficulty with the transition from home to school,
and with transitions that occurred in his school
day.
The school created a sensory room that was just his.
He craved movement, running and jumping on furniture,
loved to feel his saliva against smooth surfaces, loved strong
odors.
In his sensory room, there was a large hammock for him to
lie in, that would hold him tight.
The ceiling was lined with Christmas lights.
There were boxes with potpourri for him to smell.
He would spend 20 minutes in this room at the beginning of
his school day, 20 minutes before lunch, and 20 minutes before
returning home.
While he was in the room, he was encouraged to take in
as much sensory information as he could.
Once he left the room, he was calm and ready to learn.
This won’t work for every child, but demonstrates how some
creative thinking can benefit even the most challenging
behaviors.
Prior to the intervention of the sensory room, the
school was ready to exclude him.
With the sensory room in place, he became
much more compliant, calm, and willing to work with
other people.
The important thing is to remember what works for your
child, and incorporate that into their daily routine.
This is just one of the many tricks, tips and techniques
that you can use to cope with your Autistic child’s
behaviors that feature in my new book “The Parenting
Autism Resource Guide”.
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Parenting Defiant Aspergers Teens
Although Aspergers is at the milder end of the autism spectrum, the challenges parents face when disciplining a teenager with Aspergers are more difficult than they would be with an average teen. Complicated by defiant behavior, the Aspergers teen is at risk for even greater difficulties on multiple levels – unless the parents’ disciplinary techniques are tailored to their child's special needs.
The standard disciplinary techniques that are recommended for “typical” teenagers do not take into account the many issues facing a child with a neurological disorder. Violent rages, self-injury, isolation-seeking tendencies and communication problems that arise due to auditory and sensory issues are just some of the behaviors that parents of teens with Aspergers will have to learn to control.
Parents need to come up with a consistent disciplinary plan ahead of time, and then present a united front and continually review their strategies for potential changes and improvements as the Aspergers teen develops and matures.
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The standard disciplinary techniques that are recommended for “typical” teenagers do not take into account the many issues facing a child with a neurological disorder. Violent rages, self-injury, isolation-seeking tendencies and communication problems that arise due to auditory and sensory issues are just some of the behaviors that parents of teens with Aspergers will have to learn to control.
Parents need to come up with a consistent disciplinary plan ahead of time, and then present a united front and continually review their strategies for potential changes and improvements as the Aspergers teen develops and matures.
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Aspergers Children “Block-Out” Their Emotions
Parenting children with Aspergers can be a daunting task. In layman’s terms, Aspergers is a developmental disability that affects the way children develop and understand the world around them, and is directly linked to their senses and sensory processing. This means they often use certain behaviors to block out their emotions or response to pain.
Although they may vary slightly from person to person, children with Aspergers tend to have similar symptoms, the main ones being:
=> A need to know when everything is happening in order not to feel completely overwhelmed
=> A rigid insistence on routine (where any change can cause an emotional and physiological meltdown)
=> Difficulties with social functioning, particularly in the rough and tumble of a school environment
=> Obsessive interests, with a focus on one subject to the exclusion of all others
=> Sensory issues, where they are oversensitive to bright light, loud sounds and unpleasant smells
=> Social isolation and struggles to make friends due to a lack of empathy, and an inability to pick up on or understand social graces and cues (such as stopping talking and allowing others to speak)
Click here to read the full article…
Although they may vary slightly from person to person, children with Aspergers tend to have similar symptoms, the main ones being:
=> A need to know when everything is happening in order not to feel completely overwhelmed
=> A rigid insistence on routine (where any change can cause an emotional and physiological meltdown)
=> Difficulties with social functioning, particularly in the rough and tumble of a school environment
=> Obsessive interests, with a focus on one subject to the exclusion of all others
=> Sensory issues, where they are oversensitive to bright light, loud sounds and unpleasant smells
=> Social isolation and struggles to make friends due to a lack of empathy, and an inability to pick up on or understand social graces and cues (such as stopping talking and allowing others to speak)
Click here to read the full article…
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We are a military family about to move...this will be our first move in three years and our first since our diagnosis...it wouldn't be a big deal if we were headed right into housing, however...there is a 6-9mo waiting list and my Aspie is not doing well. We will head to a hotel, then arrange for short term housing then move again into base housing...any suggestions....this is already awful...and getting worse
Parenting Aspergers Children - Support Group Go to our mother site: http://www.MyAspergersChild.com/ ...and type "transitions" in the search box for suggestions. Other good search terms would be "coping strategies" ..."changes in routine" ...etc.
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Cynthia Dudley Phillips I know exactly what you mean. We just moved to NC from AZ last June. Since then, we've rented then bought a house so our daughter has attended 2 schools this year. My experience has been to keep the majority of what you can "routine" while anticipating the reactions of everything else. Not easy, but some structure is better than none!! Good luck from 1 aspie parent to another.....keep smiling (it does help)
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Avien E Sahlein Bost
Cynthia, thank you so much. It's an amazing mess. Thankfully it's a "summer" move in that when I pull the boys out on the 20th they won't return till next school year. But you know how concrete apsies are and ugh...all he knows is there ...See More
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Avien E Sahlein Bost You know what my biggest difficulty is...the actual definition of Aspergers. You can't just say it's this....because it's SO complex. Unlike let's say OCD oh people get that or ODD people in general get those diagnosis but Aspergers they just don't understand. And it is so hard to MAKE them understand. Or is it just me?
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Cynthia Dudley Phillips
It's not just you...People think that they can just take a pill and have it go away :-( My daughter, also, has OCD and ADD! Most of the time, you just figure out what works for your apsie kids and then see how you can make the world work ...See More
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Avien E Sahlein Bost
LOL!!! I love the mental pictures it's how RJ my son sees things too, but I have not yet mastered doing it or remembering to do it! I think it's great that you talk to everyone that way! :) Yeah the magic pills...ahhh how awesome would that be? I dont' want to change who he is , I just want to make the meltdowns go away...We have OCD, ADHD and ODD ...yay (note that is said with sarcasim! ) The ODD really kicks in when he's about to melt...
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