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Aspergers Checklist: Sensory Sensitivities

"Is it common for a child with Aspergers to be very picky about things, for example, will only eat certain foods ...will only wear certain clothes ...etc.?"

The short answer is 'yes'. What you're referring to here is called "sensory sensitivities," which refers to any abnormalities of the senses (i.e., sight, sound, smell, touch, or taste) a child with Aspergers or High-Functioning Autism may have. The Aspergers child generally has difficulty in at least one of these areas, though the degree will vary from person to person. Some children may have difficulty in multiple - or even all - areas. 

For example, the child may perceive ordinary sensations as unbearably intense, in which case he will begin to anticipate these experiences, feeling anxious well before the experience occurs. It will be very important to determine if the response is due to sensory or behavioral (learned) difficulties. Often a behavior may initially stem from sensory difficulties, but then becomes a learned behavior (habit). How you address the behavior will depend on which it is.

Here is a sensory sensitivity checklist (the Aspergers child will not usually have all of these traits):

1. Has difficulty in visual areas:
  • Engages in intense staring.
  • Avoids eye contact.
  • Stands too close to objects or people.
  • Displays discomfort/anxiety when looking at certain pictures (e.g., the child feels as if the visual experience is closing in on him).

2. Has difficulty in auditory areas:
  • Covers ears when certain sounds are made.
  • Displays extreme fear when unexpected noises occur.
  • Displays an inability to focus when surrounded by multiple sounds (e.g., shopping mall, airport, party).
  • Purposely withdraws to avoid noises.
  • Is fearful of the sounds particular objects make (e.g., vacuum, blender, DustBuster).

3. Has difficulty in olfactory areas:
  • Finds some smells so overpowering or unpleasant that he becomes nauseated.
  • Displays a strong olfactory memory.
  • Can recognize smells before others.
  • Needs to smell foods before eating them.
  • Needs to smell materials before using them.

4. Has difficulty in tactile areas:
  • Has difficulty when touched by others, even lightly (especially shoulders and head).
  • Displays anxiety when touched unexpectedly.
  • Complains of clothing feeling like sandpaper.
  • Has difficulty accepting new clothing (including for change of seasons).
  • Has difficulty with clothing seams or tags.
  • Does not respond to temperature appropriately.
  • Underreacts to pain.
  • Overreacts to pain.
  • Has difficulty using particular materials (e.g., glue, paint, clay).
  • Complains of a small amount of wetness (e.g., from the water fountain, a small spill).

5. Has difficulty in gustatory areas:
  • Makes limited food choices.
  • Will only tolerate foods of a particular texture or color.
  • Needs to touch foods before eating them.
  • Displays unusual chewing and swallowing behaviors.
  • Has rigidity issues tied in with limited food preferences (e.g., this is the food he always has, it is always this brand, and it is always prepared and presented in this way).
  • Cannot allow foods to touch each other on the plate.
  • Must eat each individual food in its entirety before the next.
  • Has an easily activated gag/vomit reflex.

6. Engages in self-stimulatory behaviors (e.g., rocking, hand movements, facial grimaces).

7. Is oversensitive to environmental stimulation (e.g., changes in light, sound, smell, location of objects).

8. Is undersensitive to environmental stimulation (e.g., changes in light, sound, smell, location of objects).

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes, that's what my son does. He is very picky.

Anonymous said...

Yes, yes, and YES!

Anonymous said...

yes,my a/s hubby and children always been fussy and picky,

Anonymous said...

absolutely. textures, lights, noises.....

Anonymous said...

Has anyone else noticed sensory problems changing at about puberty?

Anonymous said...

Mine hasn't hit puberty yet, but I'm curious as to what I have to look forward to, lol.

Anonymous said...

My son rarely recognises when he is thirsty.Anyone else come across this one?
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Anonymous said...

Yes: preferences for foods, fabric,textures,sounds,smells,etc... Often sensory processing issues

Anonymous said...

My son loves to play and lay on fabrics! He's only 5 but, has gotten to the point where he only eats a grilled cheese! If it's not completely done all over and cut in a certain way he won't eat it! Only drinks a certain drink etc.

Anonymous said...

I have two daughters on the spectrum the eldest has severe sensory issues toward clothes, bedding, towels, food, cutlery, cups, cotton wool, certain fabrics, sanitary wear the feel of glasses from the dishwasher.. smells, certain noises ie: trains, people eating, clocks ticking, trainers squeaking , certain foods too many name .. Plus not eating the ends of food sausages etc .. And all of this is at its highest peek during the menstrual cycle along with melt downs for at least 8 days !

Anonymous said...

She also likes tight fitting clothes but hates all labels and seems ... And yet the other daughter likes all food and drink and likes baggy clothes but dosen't like any loud noise at all !

Anonymous said...

my son used to eat only cheetos know everything has to be covered in ranch & i have him drink plenty of water he also takes adhd meds

Anonymous said...

Thats what I hear and find true to my son. He loves fruits and veggies raw. He is so particular about everything

Anonymous said...

My 14 yr old son is a "vegetarian" since 4 yrs old. Cannot stand to smell meat cooking. Will only eat the same bland foods like crackers, box cereal, box macaroni & cheese, cheese pizza, french fries, baby food sweet potatoes, choc milk. He has gag reflex also.

Anonymous said...

Puberty no fun,puberty bad.Really,in human language,puberty is a roller-coaster ride.I have noticed my aspie's sensitivities have grown since puberty kicked in gear.Thankfully no food issues.Just noises,crowds,lights,and more rigidity than ever.There is a great article on Asperger's and Puberty somewhere on here.Makes alot of sense when you read it.

Anonymous said...

We are up to 10 foods, all certain brands, hates socks and tags, can not open bag of chips in the same room, sensitive eyes to light, much of what its listed here.

My child has been rejected by his peers, ridiculed and bullied !!!

Social rejection has devastating effects in many areas of functioning. Because the Aspergers child tends to internalize how others treat him, rejection damages self-esteem and often causes anxiety and depression. As the child feels worse about himself and becomes more anxious and depressed – he performs worse, socially and intellectually. Thus, the best treatment for Aspergers children and teens is, without a doubt, “social skills training.”

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Don’t breathe a sigh of relief yet. At the least provocation, for the remainder of that day -- and sometimes into the next - the meltdown can return in full force.

If your child suffers from Asperger’s Syndrome, expect him to experience both minor and major meltdowns over incidents that are part of daily life. He may have a major meltdown over a very small incident, or may experience a minor meltdown over something that is major. There is no way of telling how he is going to react about certain situations. However, there are many ways to help your child learn to control his emotions.

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Although they may vary slightly from person to person, children with Aspergers tend to have similar symptoms, the main ones being:

=> A need to know when everything is happening in order not to feel completely overwhelmed
=> A rigid insistence on routine (where any change can cause an emotional and physiological meltdown)
=> Difficulties with social functioning, particularly in the rough and tumble of a school environment
=> Obsessive interests, with a focus on one subject to the exclusion of all others
=> Sensory issues, where they are oversensitive to bright light, loud sounds and unpleasant smells
=> Social isolation and struggles to make friends due to a lack of empathy, and an inability to pick up on or understand social graces and cues (such as stopping talking and allowing others to speak)

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Parents face issues such as college preparation, vocational training, teaching independent living, and providing lifetime financial support for their child, if necessary. Meanwhile, their immature Aspergers teenager is often indifferent – and even hostile – to these concerns.

As you were raising your child, you imagined how he would be when he grew up. Maybe you envisioned him going to college, learning a skilled traded, getting a good job, or beginning his own family. But now that (once clear) vision may be dashed. You may be grieving the loss of the child you wish you had.

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