It's Aspergers Syndrome! How do you share the news?
Finding out that one’s child has been diagnosed with Aspergers or High-Functioning Autism can be distressing for some parents. Moms and dads may naturally feel guilty even though there isn’t anything yet known that could have prevented the disorder. Through all of this comes the need for telling others about the syndrome and how it affects the child.
If you are faced with having to tell those around you that your child has Aspergers or HFA, the first thing you want to do is understand and read about the condition so that you can answer questions appropriately and truly be an advocate for your child.
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47 minutes ago · Like · 2
Now you know ur child's condition you will be able to educate yourself read books and get intouch with families with children/adults with Aspergers you can help him now..my son is 15 with Aspergers and we are learning about this condition all the time, I am so proud of my son and as much as we have had difficult times with him I wouldn't change him he had a fab sense of humour and is unique :))
Most of all it's good to talk and if you need help with anything you should ask now you know his diagnosis, all the best x
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Get and IEP (individualized education plan) ASAP. Your child has a right to any modifications that may be needed to aid the student and the education team. This will be reviewed annually so use that opportunity to familiarize new staff to your child and his special needs, behaviors, "quirks".
As years pass and you and your support team (family, educators, friends, medical team) see how successful your hard work has been you will have a whole new problem. They will think he's cured! No! No! No! That's what all these folks mean by "it's not a disease". It never goes away for the person with Aspergers. They have tools and resources they have learned to apply to difficult situations, but that doesn't mean the situation is suddenly not difficult for them! (especially sensory issues). Imagine learning to overcome loud noises sending you into a tailspin only to be told you no longer have difficulty with loud noises! I am facing this with my teenager right now. Just when I thought we were on easy street (hah!), I realize that I will ALWAYS be an advocate for him. Someday when his wife calls to say she's had it, I'll be the one to help her realize HOW he loves her and HOW MUCH he loves her.
You are unimaginably overwhelmed with a recent diagnosis and so much to take in. Give yourself some time. I grieved, I feared, I felt helpless. I took my time to get the inevitable JUNK out of my head and heart - and then I got busy! You and your son are going to be FINE. You will be GEAT! You will be delighted by his soaring strengths and empowered by your ability to address his weaknesses.
P.S. you will never make it to "easy street". No parent of any child will :)
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