My child has been rejected by his peers, ridiculed and bullied !!!
Social rejection has devastating effects in many areas of functioning. Because the ASD child tends to internalize how others treat him, rejection damages self-esteem and often causes anxiety and depression. As the child feels worse about himself and becomes more anxious and depressed – he performs worse, socially and intellectually.
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How to Prevent Meltdowns in Children on the Spectrum
Meltdowns are not a pretty sight. They are somewhat like overblown temper tantrums, but unlike tantrums, meltdowns can last anywhere from ten minutes to over an hour. When it starts, the Asperger's or HFA child is totally out-of-control. When it ends, both you and your child are totally exhausted. But... don’t breathe a sigh of relief yet. At the least provocation, for the remainder of that day -- and sometimes into the next - the meltdown can return in full force.
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Parenting Defiant Teens on the Spectrum
Although Aspergers [high-functioning autism] is at the milder end of the autism spectrum, the challenges parents face when disciplining a teenager on the spectrum are more difficult than they would be with an average teen. Complicated by defiant behavior, the teen is at risk for even greater difficulties on multiple levels – unless the parents’ disciplinary techniques are tailored to their child's special needs.
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Older Teens and Young Adult Children with ASD Still Living At Home
Your older teenager or young “adult child” isn’t sure what to do, and he is asking you for money every few days. How do you cut the purse strings and teach him to be independent? Parents of teens with ASD face many problems that other parents do not. Time is running out for teaching their adolescent how to become an independent adult. As one mother put it, "There's so little time, yet so much left to do."
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Parenting Children and Teens with High-Functioning Autism
Two traits often found in kids with High-Functioning Autism are “mind-blindness” (i.e., the inability to predict the beliefs and intentions of others) and “alexithymia” (i.e., the inability to identify and interpret emotional signals in others). These two traits reduce the youngster’s ability to empathize with peers. As a result, he or she may be perceived by adults and other children as selfish, insensitive and uncaring.
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Highly Effective Research-Based Parenting Strategies for Children with Asperger's and HFA
Become an expert in helping your child cope with his or her “out-of-control” emotions, inability to make and keep friends, stress, anger, thinking errors, and resistance to change.
3 comments:
My "aspy" son is going through much of this already and it breaks my heart. I just want to fast-forward for him... but as they say.. what doesn't kill him will make him stronger... I am not sure that is truth.. but I am hoping it is...
My son is 9 and he is already experiencing some of these issues addressed in this article. Luckily, he does have a special interest and was blessed with musical talent. So far that has been a tremendous help socially. We have often wondered how he (we) will survive his teen years. I'd love to read a similar post relating to the tween years!
My son also has music as his obsession which has helped him have a group of musical friends. We thought this was great until drugs entered the picture. My 15 year old son is constantly offered drugs and tells me point blank. I now explain to his friends jake has aspergers and as such will do what they do and will get addicted(easily)! His friends still do drugs but will do it only when he is not around. I sometimes wish I could just tell these kids to get lost however almost all teenagers are experimenting so I want to keep the kids around that will want jake safe. I do get frustrated when I see these young kids with stoned red eyes is life that hard for our kids!
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