Revealing Your Child's Diagnosis To Extended Family

"How should we go about telling my parents (and other family members) that our son has been diagnosed with autism (high-functioning)? They have always thought his behavior was odd. We believe strongly they should know so they can help to one degree or another with his special needs."

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Parenting Aspergers Children - Support Group said...

Abby Hartwig Jakowski About 6 months after our dx, I wrote a big long email about our "autism journey" and sent it out to everyone. That way they could digest it as they needed to and I could manage questions as I needed to. I thought it was important to tell them all as there are still many cousins of mine who have yet to have kids and maybe my letter can help them watch for warning signs and make informed decisions.
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Carrie Arick I never got the chance to share. I told one person and that and they told everyone else before we got home from the doctor's appointment. Wish I could have had more time to process it as a family before it was shared with the entire world.
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Carrie Arick ‎*that PERSON
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Alice Cranford We shared the information with grandparents and our closest siblings in depth. Everyone else it has just kind of been on a as it comes up kind of conversation. We focus more on the positives of our Aspie (exceptional memory skills etc.) then explain his quirks (poor social skills, hypersensitivities etc.) it seems to help them appreciate our unique little guy more.
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Monica D'Agostino Seidel AC: YES! That's what we do, and that's how we live.
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Kim Cohen I wrote a semi-long letter to close friends and family about what was going on; I needed the support and love. Most importantly, I no longer wanted people to misunderstand what my son does or what it means when he does certain things. I took a similar approach of giving the strength alongside the challenge. I think our close friends and family definitely have far more information because they are just closer to us. Likely, this year it will probably make it in some form in our family holiday newsletter for some of the same reasons that AJ noted, not to mention, I know a lot of family members have kids with other LDs, so I want them to know they are not alone too!
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Anonymous said...

I agree that it is delicate, especially when it is a familial condition (you know, great-grandpa got an engineering degree from MIT, etc., etc.) It's not as if you can suggest to someone that they have it too, or at least noticeable Aspie traits! My dear MIL loves our Aspie, but it's not like we can point out its genetic legacy to her, as she shares some of the same traits. Please, everyone contemplating pregnancy, do your research on prenatal vitamin D (why do younger siblings have a greater chance of having autism? Hmmm.....) and take enough!

Anonymous said...

My sons behavior has effected the entire family but whats worse is when relatives just don't listen and only see him as a naughty little boy-there reactions often ignite the situation and so I tend to stay away in case he has a wobbly.

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