When a child has got one or more disorders along with the main disease or disorder, the condition is defined as Comorbid and Comorbidity, which is the effect of all these disorders as seen in the patient. Aspergers is enlisted as an Autism Spectrum Disorder or ASD as well as Pervasive Developmental Disorder or PDD, and in this condition the child has trouble interacting socially with the others around him or her. Unlike Autism, in Aspergers the child has no difficulty in learning the language or the process is not even delayed but when it comes to communicating with others at a social scale they fail miserably.
Sensory Processing Disorder or SPD is one such disorder which is common among those that have Aspergers, and in this case the child becomes over sensitive to the various sensory stimulations. For instance, they form an intense dislike of loud noises and sounds and become very distressed when they need to face loud noises. They are easily irritated when dealing with unusual textures and so strictly adhere to the same textures that they are comfortable with and scratchy clothing material is an absolute no-no to most people having Aspergers.
Dyspraxia is when a child is not able to coordinate as well as perform certain acts in spite of having the prior plan for it (i.e., they fail to execute a plan or face real difficulty in the process, and at times they even have trouble in planning with coordination). This disorder is one reason why kids with Aspergers have always been described as clumsy.
Tourette’s Syndrome is when a child faces the repetitive vocal as well as motor tics, and even though it is not extremely common to find Tourette’s Syndrome as a comorbid condition of Aspergers, it is still to be seen in many cases. In spite of the fact that not every Aspergers child will have Tourette’s Syndrome, it is true that most kids diagnosed with Tourette’s have Aspergers as well.
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder or OCD is something which is found in most kids of Aspergers, as autistic people - even those with mild autism or Aspergers - adhere to strict routines, and they like to keep every particular object in one particular way, and when changed, they get very distressed. This is one habit which later on leads to OCD.
Depression and anxiety are two most common disorders to be found in a child who has Aspergers. Even the slightest thing can cause them to get anxious, and this develops into severe anxiety disorder. Teens with Aspergers suffer from depression, and this is probably caused by the realization that they are different and the fact that they are often bullied and are made fun of by teens of the same age. Teens and adults with Aspergers often turn to alcohol as a way to deal with these disorders and comorbid conditions.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder or ADHD is also a very common comorbid condition of Aspergers. Here the child is unable to concentrate and becomes impulsive to a great degree.
Anger control problems or meltdowns (i.e., intense temper tantrums) are also common is Aspergers children. Aspergers kids are often easily frustrated and confused in their relationships with family and friends and, as a result, tend to use anger as a way to cope and make sense of their environment.
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Parenting Defiant Aspergers Teens
Although Aspergers is at the milder end of the autism spectrum, the challenges parents face when disciplining a teenager with Aspergers are more difficult than they would be with an average teen. Complicated by defiant behavior, the Aspergers teen is at risk for even greater difficulties on multiple levels – unless the parents’ disciplinary techniques are tailored to their child's special needs.
The standard disciplinary techniques that are recommended for “typical” teenagers do not take into account the many issues facing a child with a neurological disorder. Violent rages, self-injury, isolation-seeking tendencies and communication problems that arise due to auditory and sensory issues are just some of the behaviors that parents of teens with Aspergers will have to learn to control.
Parents need to come up with a consistent disciplinary plan ahead of time, and then present a united front and continually review their strategies for potential changes and improvements as the Aspergers teen develops and matures.
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The standard disciplinary techniques that are recommended for “typical” teenagers do not take into account the many issues facing a child with a neurological disorder. Violent rages, self-injury, isolation-seeking tendencies and communication problems that arise due to auditory and sensory issues are just some of the behaviors that parents of teens with Aspergers will have to learn to control.
Parents need to come up with a consistent disciplinary plan ahead of time, and then present a united front and continually review their strategies for potential changes and improvements as the Aspergers teen develops and matures.
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Aspergers Children “Block-Out” Their Emotions
Parenting children with Aspergers can be a daunting task. In layman’s terms, Aspergers is a developmental disability that affects the way children develop and understand the world around them, and is directly linked to their senses and sensory processing. This means they often use certain behaviors to block out their emotions or response to pain.
Although they may vary slightly from person to person, children with Aspergers tend to have similar symptoms, the main ones being:
=> A need to know when everything is happening in order not to feel completely overwhelmed
=> A rigid insistence on routine (where any change can cause an emotional and physiological meltdown)
=> Difficulties with social functioning, particularly in the rough and tumble of a school environment
=> Obsessive interests, with a focus on one subject to the exclusion of all others
=> Sensory issues, where they are oversensitive to bright light, loud sounds and unpleasant smells
=> Social isolation and struggles to make friends due to a lack of empathy, and an inability to pick up on or understand social graces and cues (such as stopping talking and allowing others to speak)
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Although they may vary slightly from person to person, children with Aspergers tend to have similar symptoms, the main ones being:
=> A need to know when everything is happening in order not to feel completely overwhelmed
=> A rigid insistence on routine (where any change can cause an emotional and physiological meltdown)
=> Difficulties with social functioning, particularly in the rough and tumble of a school environment
=> Obsessive interests, with a focus on one subject to the exclusion of all others
=> Sensory issues, where they are oversensitive to bright light, loud sounds and unpleasant smells
=> Social isolation and struggles to make friends due to a lack of empathy, and an inability to pick up on or understand social graces and cues (such as stopping talking and allowing others to speak)
Click here to read the full article…
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My 5 year old Aspie has all the tell tale signs of Asperger's syndome, to the point where it seems like everything I've ever read was written with him in mind. Except for one key difference...my son is extremely social. He is very popular among other kids, they almost fight for his attention. They love the fact that he can recite comic books word for word, and remembers the names of even the most obscure Star Wars characters, and because he is a people pleaser he will share anything he has to maintain the friendship. He worries very much about how other kids see him and trys obsessively to fit in. I know all children with Asperger's syndrome are different, but my question is, is this very uncommon in Asperger's? I feel people "don't believe" he is on the spectrum because of his social skills.
Parenting Aspergers Children - Support Group He must be high functioning. Aspergers is on the high functioning side of autism anyway - but some are higher than others. So, "uncommon"? I would say yes.
August 9 at 10:31am · Like
Keturah Broadwood My 7 year old is high function Aspergers. He is overly social but has no boundaries. He hugs and has no personal space. We are often told that there is no way he could have Aspergers but they don't realise that this behavour is only one aspect of Him. When he meltdowns over getting dressed or getting in the car I have no doubt. At the end of the day you are his parent and see Him for who he is and everything he does trust yourself.
August 9 at 8:49pm · Like · 2 people
Jessica Swift My aspie is very social in that he loves being around other kids, but he isn't popular. He highly lacks in social skills despite his "socialness". It's like he wants friends but making friends is hard and he doesn't realize whenever someone is being mean.
August 9 at 8:50pm · Like
Jessica Swift By the way my son is almost 8 and the "social rules" have gotten a lot more complicated from when he was 5.
August 9 at 8:51pm · Like
Jillian Gomes Thank you guys :) Keturah, my son is is the same as far as boundaries, when he plays with other kids we have to remind him to back up because he will talk (very loudly) into their face instead of to it. @ Jessica, you're absolutely right, what is accepted at 5 won't be at 8. I know my son also won't understand when someone is being mean to him. You guys gave me lots of food for thought and I really appreciate your input :).
Keturah Broadwood I agree, Jessica. My son loves being with other children but just doesn't seem to know how to play WITH them. He orders them around and expects to play all games his own way. Every year seems to get harder as the social gap between the kids getts wider. In his defense he is starting to learn more and more social ideas though doesn't seem to understand why we do them.
August 9 at 9:10pm · Like
Erica Jean Rutherford Ryan was diagnosed HFA/Asperger's and he is how you guys describe. He loves people, but has no social "skills" -- he can't tell when people don't want to play with him or talk to him. He tries to hug on perfect strangers in stores and such. He is bossy with HOW games are played (everyone has to follow his rules or they can't play anywhere near him).
I don't think that this type of social behavior is uncommon at all for Aspies. Many areas of documentation explain this as fairly typical Asperger's behavior... it's one of the determining factors that separates it from other areas on the spectrum. They generally WANT friends, they just don't know HOW to make them, where other auties are more or less oblivious to everyone else around them.
What seems to happen as the children get older and the social gap becomes larger and your Aspie son is still quoting comic books and Star Wars characters when all the other boys are chasing girls, they become less social. They learn that the other kids don't want to do the things they want to do, and then they begin to focus less on the social interaction.
August 9 at 9:59pm · Like
Keturah Broadwood A friend of mines son is 14 with aspergers. He wants to interact but has so much trouble. We were all introduced to him as a wonderful child who has an interesting view on life. Our group of friends are great. The 14yr old likes to shake everyones had when they arrive and then walks off. We are glad that despite the fact that he knows how different he is he trys to make an effort. I hope that I am blessed to still have this group of friends when my 7yr old is that old.
Wednesday at 4:26am · Like · 1 person
Jessica Swift Yah, I do think the gap gets bigger as they get older. My son really gets along better with either younger children or adults because of this. He used to quote star wars too, btw, lol! Now he is constantly talking about Final Fantasy 7, and most kids don't even have a clue what that is since it is an old playstation game. Thankfully my hubby is a huge gamer and can carry a conversation with him. lol
Wednesday at 4:36pm · Like · 1 person
Katie Cullen McGoey I will add my vote to that of the other commenters. My son is the same way - playing 'next to' not with, or fully directing the game choices, character choices, rules and all else whenever he does attempt to play 'with' someone - and forbid they don't want to play along by his rules, then we have arguments and meltdowns because he can't tolerate "that's not how you play". His poor sister - she feels like she can't win; its all about him! ...
Thursday at 11:25am · Like
Katie Cullen McGoey ...This summer we sent them to "social skills camp" for the summer (so they could both learn), where the whole focus was on learning those skills - they are teaching the "how to" very systematically. Rome wasn't built in a day, but after 6 weeks we've seen improvement. On facebook you can find the camp for info - it is Camp Excel in NJ, for anyone local...
Thursday at 11:32am · Like · 1 person
Katie Cullen McGoey ...But good luck to all - its just who they are, and we just have to adapt and continually educate others so they can too. I just keep up my own mantra: "it's all good" and smile broadly at the fact that while he may be socially challenged, my son is smart and has a heart of gold, despite the fact that he doesn't verbalize it.
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