My ASD Child

Mrs Primproper talks about how people with Aspergers are great at "systemizing":

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Would you have a fairly comprehensive list of the early signs and symptoms of autism? The signs and symptoms of autism vary widely, as do its effects. Some autistic kids have only mild impairments, while others have more obstacles to overcome. However, every child on the autism spectrum has problems, at least to some degree, in the following three areas: 1. Thinking and behaving flexibly 2. Relating to others and the world around them 3. Communicating verbally and non-verbally Here is a comprehensive list of the early signs of autism: 1. Abnormal posture, clumsiness, or eccentric ways of moving (e.g., walking exclusively on tiptoe) 2. Appears disinterested or unaware of other people or what’s going on around them 3. Avoids eye contact 4. Doesn’t ask for help or make other basic requests 5. Doesn’t follow objects visually 6. Doesn’t follow the gesture when you point things out 7. Doesn’t imitate your movements and facial expressions 8. Doesn’t init

Two traits often found in kids with Aspergers are mind-blindness (i.e., the inability to predict the beliefs and intentions of others) and alexithymia (i.e., the inability to identify and interpret emotional signals in oneself or others), which reduce the ability to be empathetically attuned to others. Click here for the full article...

"My 17 y.o. son with high functioning autism is an emotional mess. He hibernates in his room playing video games, refuses to eat with the family, seems very depressed, doesn't talk to us even when he is out of his bedroom, has no friends that we are aware of, has completely given up on school (he will go, but we heard from teachers that he simply puts his head on his desk and naps during class; also does not do a lick of homework anymore). We are worried that he may even be suicidal, as he has mentioned that he 'hates life'. Where do we go from here?"   Click here for my response...

What to do if you discover that your Aspergers child is being bullied at school:

"Why is my (high functioning) son so set in his ways. When he gets an idea in his mind, no amount of logic will budge him - very stubborn on multiple fronts." Parenting kids with Aspergers (AS) and High-Functioning Autism (HFA) means making and sticking to routines and schedules – or paying the price! Kids with the disorder often insist on a rigid routine, and something as simple as the "wrong" cereal for breakfast can send them into a tantrum or a meltdown. They often insist that things remain the same! Consider trains versus cars: AS and HFA kids are much more like little mental trains compared to the average mind that is much more like a car driving on a road. They require a specific route, a specific timetable, and often a specific set of rules for the journey from A to B. Unpredictability is not something that they appreciate – it is widely suggested that the firm, repeatable structure and routine which these kids form in their mind is what makes th