My ASD Child

Helping Parents Understand & Cope with Their Autistic Teenagers (Foundations + a 7-Day Starter Plan you can use tonight) Big Picture: What “autism in adolescence” actually looks like Autistic teenagers often have the same core profile as in childhood—differences in sensory processing, social communication, and cognitive flexibility—but puberty, new academic demands, and social complexity crank the intensity way up. What you see at home (shutdowns, meltdowns, “defiance,” school refusal, hours of gaming, refusal of hygiene, etc.) is often the nervous system saying “I’m overwhelmed,” not “I don’t care.” Key concepts to keep in mind: Nervous-system first, behavior second. Stress, prediction errors, and sensory load drive most “behavioral” moments. Monotropism. Many autistic teens focus deeply on a few interests. That focus is regulating—use it, don’t fight it. Alexithymia & interoceptive differences. Many teens struggle to identify internal states (e.g., “am I a...

    Resources for parents of children and teens on the autism spectrum :   ==> How to Prevent Meltdowns and Tantrums in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder ==> Parenting System that Reduces Defiant Behavior in Teens with Autism Spectrum Disorder ==> Launching Adult Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder: Guide for Parents Who Want to Promote Self-Reliance ==> Teaching Social-Skills and Emotion-Management to Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder ==> Parenting Children and Teens with High-Functioning Autism: Parents' Comprehensive Handbook ==> Unraveling the Mystery Behind High-Functioning Autism: Audio Book ==> Crucial Research-Based Parenting Strategies for Children and Teens with High-Functioning Autism     More articles for parents of children and teens on the autism spectrum :   Social rejection has devastating effects in many areas of functioning. Because the ASD child tends to internalize how others trea...

  Creating a Powerful IEP --- An Individualized Education Program (IEP) is more than just a legal requirement—it is a roadmap for your child’s educational success. For parents of autistic children, working hand-in-hand with teachers to build an IEP that reflects both strengths and challenges can transform the school experience. Here’s how you can play an active role in helping teachers create a powerful IEP that truly supports your child. 1. Understand the Purpose of the IEP The IEP is designed to give your child access to education in a way that fits their unique learning profile. It covers: Current performance levels (academic, social, emotional, and functional) Goals and objectives tailored to your child’s needs Accommodations and modifications that help them succeed Support services such as speech, occupational therapy, or social skills training When parents clearly understand these components, they can more effectively collaborate with teachers. 2. Sha...

In our digitally-driven society, video games have become a staple in the lives of many teenagers, providing not only entertainment but also a platform for social interaction and skill development. For adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), the magnetic pull of video games can sometimes evolve into an overwhelming fixation that eclipses academic obligations, particularly homework assignments. By delving deeper into the specific factors contributing to this phenomenon and outlining effective strategies for support, we can foster a more balanced lifestyle for these teens. ### The Captivating World of Video Games Video games present an enticing escape, especially for adolescents with ASD, offering an array of features that appeal to their unique needs: 1. **Structured Gameplay**: Many games are designed with clear rules, objectives, and predictable outcomes. This structured nature can provide a reassuring sense of order for ASD teens who often find comfort in routine and predicta...

Suicidal ideation among adolescents has emerged as a pressing public health issue, and when it comes to autistic teenagers, the gravity of the situation intensifies. Research has shown that neurodiverse individuals face distinct challenges that can significantly increase their susceptibility to mental health struggles, including suicidal thoughts and actions. For families, educators, and mental health professionals, understanding these contributing factors is vital to providing the necessary support for autistic youth. #### The Alarming Rates of Suicidal Ideation in Autistic Adolescents Evidence reveals that autistic teenagers are at a notably elevated risk for suicidal ideation compared to their neurotypical counterparts. A range of studies indicates that between 30% to 50% of autistic adolescents may wrestle with thoughts of suicide, highlighting an urgent need for mental health resources tailored specifically to their unique experiences. This statistic is particularly alarming, sugg...