Thank you. This is exactly the thing that we are struggling with at present. Our eldest son (13) has Aspergers, but it is borderline, so it isn't easy to tell when we have some behaviour that is "because he has Aspergers" and when he is just being an ordinary sibling and annoying his brothers. We haven't explained his diagnosis to his 9 and 7 year old brothers, but think it is time now, especially as his youngest brother is having trouble with anger at school and expressed confusion about his oldest brother's behaviour to a counsellor there.
This is a really great video. In our home we make it a point to learn at least one new thing a week about Aspergers. This not only helps my 7 yr. old son understand his diagnosis better; but it also helps him to become more comfortable when explaining Aspergers to other children. I really feel that the more self-aware he becomes the more he will be able to spread his knowledge and enlighten those he meets about the world of Aspergers.
If you are about to embark on a marriage to someone who has Aspergers (high functioning autism), there are a few things that you may need to know (some good, and some not-so-good, perhaps): 1. Although Aspies (i.e., people with Aspergers) do feel affection towards others, relationships are not a priority for them in the same way that it is for neurotypicals or NTs (i.e., individuals without Aspergers). 2. A relationship with an Aspergers partner may take on more of the characteristics of a business partnership or arrangement. 3. Although he genuinely loves his spouse, the Aspie does not know how to show this in a practical way sometimes. 4. An Aspie is often attracted to someone who shares his interests or passions, and this can form a good basis for their relationship. 5. An Aspie needs time alone. Often the best thing the NT partner can do is give her Aspie the freedom of a few hours alone while she visits friends or goes shopping. 6. An Aspie often has a ...
Approximately 80% of grown-ups with Aspergers and High Functioning Autism (HFA) do not have full-time jobs – not because they can’t do the work, but because they often have difficulty being socially acceptable while they get the work done. Bad Jobs for Individuals with Aspergers— Air traffic controller -- Information overload Airline ticket agent -- Deal with mad individuals when flights are cancelled Cashier -- making change quickly puts too much demand on short-term working memory Casino dealer -- Too many things to keep track of Futures market trader -- Totally impossible Receptionist and telephone operator -- Would have problems when the switch board got busy Short order cook -- Have to keep track of many orders and cook many different things at the same time Taking oral dictation -- Difficult due to auditory processing problems Taxi dispatcher -- Too many things to keep track of Waitress -- Especially difficult if have to keep track of many different tables ...
Below you will find the majority of symptoms associated with High-Functioning Autism (HFA), also referred to as Asperger’s. The HFA child will not usually have all of these traits. We will look at the following categories: sensory sensitivities, cognitive issues, motor clumsiness, narrow range of interests, insistence on set routines, impairments in language, and difficulty with reciprocal social interactions. Sensory Sensitivity Checklist— 1. Difficulty in visual areas: Avoids eye contact Displays discomfort/anxiety when looking at certain pictures (e.g., the child feels as if the visual experience is closing in on him) Engages in intense staring Stands too close to objects or people 2. Difficulty in auditory areas: Covers ears when certain sounds are made Displays an inability to focus when surrounded by multiple sounds (e.g., shopping mall, airport, party) Displays extreme fear when unexpected noises occur Fearful of the sounds particular objects make ...
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