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Resources for parents of children and teens with High-Functioning Autism and Asperger's:

The Difference Between a "Disorder" and the Normal Range of Abilities


“They talk about high functioning autism as being a ‘disorder’, which I don’t like that term. In any event, what is the difference between a ‘disorder’ and the normal range of abilities and personality?”

All behaviors fall along a continuum or spectrum. At one end of the spectrum is “normal” behavior, abilities, individual characteristics that are considered appropriate (or typical) on the basis of an individual’s culture, age, gender, etc.

At the other end of the spectrum are groups of behaviors that, when exhibited regularly by an individual, create problems for that person in terms of his or her functioning socially, emotionally, or occupationally.

Most people have certain idiosyncrasies (e.g., unusual hobbies, anxiety, awkwardness in social situations, clumsiness, obsessions, etc.). This is considered well within the range of normal behavior.

However, when these behaviors overlap, form a pattern across time, and negatively impact a person’s ability to function, then they are viewed as “clinically significant,” and as requiring diagnosis and treatment.

There is a lot of controversy about the diagnosis of High-Functioning Autism (HFA) and Asperger’s. Some people view this as simply a different way of thinking and viewing the world.

Added to the mix is concern that people with poor social skills are being “pathologized.” In other words, the “loners” are now qualifying for a diagnosis.

Our society expects people to be social. When they are not, should we view them as sociopathic or disabled? Simon Baron-Cohen explored this argument and looked at both sides. He suggested that many of the behaviors associated with the “disorder” represent a focus on things rather than on people. They spend most of their time completing tasks rather than socializing.

If placed in a different environment, Baron-Cohen believed that Asperger’s would not be seen as a “disorder.” He also pointed out that kids on the high functioning end of the autism spectrum tend to meet the majority of developmental milestones on time – and emphasized the typical or “normal” aspect of their development.

In contrast, he also discussed two reasons for continuing to consider Asperger’s a “disability”:
  1. so that individuals with this diagnosis could have access to support at school (e.g., through special education services) and within the community (e.g., some insurance companies will pay for the affected individual to get treatment in outpatient therapy)
  2. because lack of empathy (i.e., theory of mind) can create significant problems emotionally for people with Asperger’s and HFA

In summary, a “disorder” is a behavioral or mental pattern that causes significant distress or impairment in a person’s ability to function effectively and consistently in day-to-day living (e.g., physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, financially, vocationally - and even spiritually).

This is where some controversy enters the picture, because many (if not most) people on the higher end of the autism spectrum would say they "function" just fine in most areas of life (although most would admit to certain areas of struggle as well).


Helping Kids on the Autism Spectrum Deal with Sensory Sensitivities

Here are our top picks for items to help children with Asperger's and High-Functioning Autism cope with their numerous sensory issues:



Calming Clipper, The Silent Haircutting Kit for Children with Autism and Sensory Sensitivity, Right-Handed



Noise Reduction Headphones for Kids with Autism, Auditory Processing Disorder or Sound Sensitivity – Blue – Ages 5+



bA1 Health - 3-Sided Surround Specialty Toothbrush (Complete Coverage) - Autism, ASD, Special Needs, Sensory, Perio Brush for All Kids/Adults - Best for Sensitive Gums and Teeth! Choose From 4 Colors



Indoor Therapy Swing for Kids with Special Needs by Sensory4u (Hardware Included) Snuggle Swing | Cuddle Hammock for Children with Autism, ADHD, Aspergers | Great for Sensory Integration (Aqua Color)



SANHO Yopo Dynamic Movement Sensory Sox, Medium,6-9 Years Old, 47''LX27''W Blue



SmartKnitKIDS Seamless Sensitivity Socks 3 Pack (Black/Charcoal/White, Medium)



CozyPhones Kids Headphones Volume Limited with Ultra-Thin Speakers Soft Fleece Headband - Perfect Children's Earphones for School, Home and Travel - Mystic Unicorn



Senseez Calming Cushion for Kids - Blue Square



SmartKnitKIDS Compresso-T Deep Pressure Sensory Compression Undershirt (White, Large)



Sensory Sack (Medium), Body Sock, Calming Therapy Blanket, Sensory for Stress Relief, Anxiety, Autism, ADHD, ADD, Tactile Items for Therapeutic Play, Kids Fidget Toy, Body Pod in Green - Sensory4U



 

Children's Factory Small Sensory Table & Lid Set Classroom Furniture (1132)




My child has been rejected by his peers, ridiculed and bullied !!!

Social rejection has devastating effects in many areas of functioning. Because the ASD child tends to internalize how others treat him, rejection damages self-esteem and often causes anxiety and depression. As the child feels worse about himself and becomes more anxious and depressed – he performs worse, socially and intellectually.

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How to Prevent Meltdowns in Children on the Spectrum

Meltdowns are not a pretty sight. They are somewhat like overblown temper tantrums, but unlike tantrums, meltdowns can last anywhere from ten minutes to over an hour. When it starts, the Asperger's or HFA child is totally out-of-control. When it ends, both you and your child are totally exhausted. But... don’t breathe a sigh of relief yet. At the least provocation, for the remainder of that day -- and sometimes into the next - the meltdown can return in full force.

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Parenting Defiant Teens on the Spectrum

Although Aspergers [high-functioning autism] is at the milder end of the autism spectrum, the challenges parents face when disciplining a teenager on the spectrum are more difficult than they would be with an average teen. Complicated by defiant behavior, the teen is at risk for even greater difficulties on multiple levels – unless the parents’ disciplinary techniques are tailored to their child's special needs.

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Older Teens and Young Adult Children with ASD Still Living At Home

Your older teenager or young “adult child” isn’t sure what to do, and he is asking you for money every few days. How do you cut the purse strings and teach him to be independent? Parents of teens with ASD face many problems that other parents do not. Time is running out for teaching their adolescent how to become an independent adult. As one mother put it, "There's so little time, yet so much left to do."

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Parenting Children and Teens with High-Functioning Autism

Two traits often found in kids with High-Functioning Autism are “mind-blindness” (i.e., the inability to predict the beliefs and intentions of others) and “alexithymia” (i.e., the inability to identify and interpret emotional signals in others). These two traits reduce the youngster’s ability to empathize with peers. As a result, he or she may be perceived by adults and other children as selfish, insensitive and uncaring.

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Highly Effective Research-Based Parenting Strategies for Children with Asperger's and HFA

Become an expert in helping your child cope with his or her “out-of-control” emotions, inability to make and keep friends, stress, anger, thinking errors, and resistance to change.

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