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How Aspergers Teens/Young Adults Can Get a Girlfriend

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This is a true story: “How a Geeky Aspergers Nerd like Me Got a Girlfriend” – By Michael Hi everyone. My names is Michael and I have Aspergers (high functioning). I live in the Boston area and I’m 27 years old. I have a question for you: How can a guy with Aspergers – whose social skills suck, especially with the opposite sex – ever hope to get a girlfriend? Well I did it! And if I can do it – so can you!!! For whatever its worth, I’m going to share with you some relationship advice. Maybe I can save you several years of “trial-and-error” like I had to go through. Trust me, it would be a lot easier – and a whole lot less painful – to simply go and beat your head against a brick wall for 15 minutes than to try to get a girl interested in dating you when you have no social skills. So …here are my suggestions. And believe me, none of this can natural to me: 1. Be patient. Life does not usually work on the timetable you imagine. Your future sweetheart may cross your w

Can you treat kids with HFA the same way you treat their siblings?

"My husband as well as most of his side of the family often accuse me of mollycoddling our 6 y.o. girl with high functioning autism. They believe she should receive the same treatment as her brothers. What do you say about this? Should you treat a child with the condition the same as those without it? I'm torn on this issues, because I know that my daughter has some special needs, yet I don't want to enable. Advice?" Click here for the answer...

What issues should I consider when contemplating broaching Aspergers to my 28-year-old son?

What issues should I consider when contemplating broaching high functioning autism to my 28-year-old son? I want to help him -- he has no social life, lives at home, is rigid in his habits...in short is on the spectrum in both me and my husband's opinion. Should we tell him what we're thinking? Click here for the answer...