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I have been with my girl friend for about a year now and the "honeymoon is over". A bunch of months back we started getting into these "tiffs", every month or so, and it would take hours of discussion to get her to be settled, but my explanation attempts of what caused me to "get mad at her" would get completely diluted and of no relevance by then. Having had multiple occurrences, with no recollection of the previous discussions and solutions other than "I had gotten mad at her", I had come up with a good list of "causes" (irritants). During the last encounter, she mentioned something that her mom had said about her childhood/infancy, in that she would fight/reject being held. I remembered this as being a symptom of something and searched the web for it, which led me to pages listing the exact same list of irritant causes I had come up with, being listed as symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome. These led me to your pages, I ordered a