tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post3483671110799069969..comments2023-09-17T04:34:33.856-07:00Comments on My ASD Child: Choosing the Right School for Your High-Functioning Autistic ChildUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-41844684914702451052012-07-23T06:57:19.884-07:002012-07-23T06:57:19.884-07:00it is sad to see that not enough public schools do...it is sad to see that not enough public schools do enough for our kids. I cant say enough about the school my son goes to. and all the staff is on the same page. they even noted in his IEP wich he has had before he was diagnosed. that they need to keep a watchful eye for kids teasing or bullying him because he may not understand that they are actually doing it. There are some public schools out there that will help our children you just need to find one and make sure that you fight for what your child is not getting if he needs something more. There are laws that back us as parents up.<br />13 hours ago · LikeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-15688068753425441552012-07-20T07:12:33.568-07:002012-07-20T07:12:33.568-07:00My son did ok in public school, but we decided to ...My son did ok in public school, but we decided to try bringing him home, because public was not giving him the attention he needed and ignoring he issue, going through Connections Academy has been an Awesome experience and he has the best grades that he has ever had, and it is a public school from home.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-9450898421971020802012-07-20T07:12:23.738-07:002012-07-20T07:12:23.738-07:00my son is aspie, but extremely high functioning wi...my son is aspie, but extremely high functioning with a hig IQ (typical, I know), but for him we decided to try public school, and were lucky enough that we are at one of the top schools in our state. After working out his IEP, we were able to mahage his education enough that it has worked out great for him. But EVERY child is different. Personally I would try a public school, and if they are not willing to work with you, or your son is unhappy, then go from there. I know FL has a scholarship to help offset the costs of a private school. I fyou do decide to go that route, you should check your state to see if there is anything like that available...GOOD LUCK, a lot depends on you, and the teachers to make school a good place for your son<br />12 hours ago · LikeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-48754024078082728942012-07-20T07:12:15.240-07:002012-07-20T07:12:15.240-07:00Worth investigating a Montessori School. Our high-...Worth investigating a Montessori School. Our high-functioning Aspie son left public school end of prep and started at one this year. We haven't looked back! Sure, not for everyone, but perfect for him. Has been able to indulge in special interests and better suits his 'hands on' learning style. Montessori is non religious. Our paediatrician once told us that one of the greatest challenges we will face with our son is finding suitable education. He is very bright for his age & we wanted to nuture that. All the best and as Carol Still (above) has said - follow your own gut instincts!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-60208620634011960852012-07-20T07:12:05.863-07:002012-07-20T07:12:05.863-07:00Education is different in all communities and the ...Education is different in all communities and the "right" location is different for each individual. Having said that, connect with other families in your area (support group or hanging around the classrooms when kids are dropped off or picked up) and ask them what they like AND what they don't like about the options. What changes would they make. Why it serves or doesn't serve their children and how their children compare to your own. visit classrooms if possible. Some kids thrive and other's don't in the exact settings. The best thing you can do is get in there and do some research and use your own gut instincts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-2929924414638115002012-07-19T15:40:41.059-07:002012-07-19T15:40:41.059-07:00My Apspie daughter attended a Montessori school fo...My Apspie daughter attended a Montessori school for elementary school and did very well. She is also gifted and could work at her own pace.It wasn't until we put her in traditional public school that we started having problems. We ended up having to homeschool her the last two years of high school.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-50951127175361011652012-07-19T11:58:27.715-07:002012-07-19T11:58:27.715-07:00My son was in public school k-2 nd grade and all t...My son was in public school k-2 nd grade and all three years I was telling the teachers and the school psychologist that I thought something was different. I was told no he was fine due to him having straight a's. Finally by 3 rd grade I thought maybe I was the wrong one and maybe he just needed a smaller classroom and enrolled him in private school. It was a disaster he was still getting great grades but was having emotional problems on the play ground. They kept sending him to principles office because they didnt know how to handle his emotional needs. Bottom line is the public school he went to specialized in hearing impaired although every public school should always have experience with the spectrum they don't always. If a child is gifted its harder for them to lend the help that is truly needed. As for private school it depends on the individual child's needs. Where is it that your child really needs the help in the classroom? Or the playground? Every child is different and we know our children best! One example is my son is strictly by the rules u know black or white very literal. A child cut in front of him in line. He told the kid he was there and the child didn't listen so my son told the teacher. The teacher said its ok we're all going to the same place just get in line. I tried to teach my son that day that it was ok to not worry about it let it go until he said to me " mom so if u were at the market and a lady just cut in front of you so it would be ok? U wouldn't say anything?" I giggled inside and realized my son was right . I love teachers but not always are they thinking about life skills they might just being trying to get through the day. I don't care if my son has straight a's I care if my son will be able to hold a job when he's older have a family and be able to live in this world. I realized this year I was going to also try k 12 home school and teach my son life skills myself but continue to do social interaction daily with his age group. We will see how it's goes I'm scared and excited I do see that he is less stressed and when he does get together with children he is doing much better! It's hard to make a decision and its very stressful for us as parents because we want the best for them. So first think about your child's needs then look into your school district if many parents are pleased with the help they are receiving then maybe it is worth it to try. If and only if the private school around u has experience with kids on the spectrum try that for a smaller classroom and more eyes on the playground. But that's only if your child will not need special help from the school such as occupational therapy or speech therapy. Just trust yourself and continue to do what is best for your child because everybody is always going to have a different story. U are doing a great job already!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-33367733706948584292012-07-19T11:58:16.633-07:002012-07-19T11:58:16.633-07:00My son was diagnosed at 8, so he was already in sc...My son was diagnosed at 8, so he was already in school. School told me for three years he was autistic but because he was so communicative I didn't see it. Now I see it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-60023983125239238272012-07-19T11:58:08.371-07:002012-07-19T11:58:08.371-07:00my sons wasnt diagnosed until he was 10 so he was ...my sons wasnt diagnosed until he was 10 so he was already at a public school, he has just completed his 1st year in secondary school and has done fabulous all the top classes. i think autistic/aspergers kids need to school alongside other kids otherwise they will think the world is a different place xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-91765031537382605032012-07-19T11:58:00.145-07:002012-07-19T11:58:00.145-07:00my son attends public school but it is a very good...my son attends public school but it is a very good one and has a social skills program that he will be in starting this year.<br />2 hours ago · Like · 1Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-32716622255266182012-07-19T11:57:52.095-07:002012-07-19T11:57:52.095-07:00This is a common concern for many parents of child...This is a common concern for many parents of children who are higher functioning in some areas, but still have major challenges in others. My 11 y/o son has been in various schooling situations and I have found none to optimal---including two 'special schools' . We have home-schooled, used an on-line program, sent him FT to a spcialized school and also sent him PT to a 2nd school for children with autism. We have visited and observed MANY other schools and have been told by various admins that our son was "not a good fit" for their school. After years of this, I can say in retrospect that the specialized schools were less than optimal for my son's development. They mean well, but are still missing the mark completely. The thing is, we need to look past the labels and more closely at true need. My son has challenges and strengths like every other person, but when he is approached as having autism, everything else gets eclipsed. He loves to cook, he loves to mentor smaller children, he loves to work with animals and he loves to see things. But he also needs support in reading, spelling and help organizing and regulating himself. And, yes, he has picked up behaviors that he did not have from other children. There has to be a balance with enough (+) role-models always being present. This yeat, we are trying traditional home schooling again with a teacher coming in at least 2 hours per day plus homeschooling classes and co-ops. Wish us luck. I don;t have all of the answers, but I do have wisdom I've gained from all of our past experiences!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-70545917779025966872012-07-19T11:57:41.597-07:002012-07-19T11:57:41.597-07:00my a/s hubby /daughters and now grandchild all att...my a/s hubby /daughters and now grandchild all attended normal school,none dx as children,all went on to have a career,grandson had to change his school after first year,it was too big and no struc=ture,he now attends a small church school,very strict ,very rigid timetable,small class ,he is very happy,top of his class,i also work with children on the spectrum,and i feel unless the a/s child is very affected by his a/s,then he /she is better maun stream,i have seen some high functioning a/s children in class with fully autistic children regress and copy some of the behaviour,but this is only my experiance,may i also add the special schools i know all do a very good job,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-8295463852949859352012-07-19T11:57:33.417-07:002012-07-19T11:57:33.417-07:00We live in Ohio, and my son goes to Summit Academy...We live in Ohio, and my son goes to Summit Academy, which is a school for kids with Aspergers, high-functioning Autism, ADHD, and related disorders. This is a TUITION-FREE, community school. My son is in 7th grade, has attended Summit since 3rd grade, and loves it. You can read more about Summit Academy here - http://www.summitacademies.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-53898284713899575232012-07-19T11:57:19.392-07:002012-07-19T11:57:19.392-07:00my 7 year old goes to the public school in our tow...my 7 year old goes to the public school in our town. but i would have to say it depends on where u live and the quality of the schoolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-70141561860968965912012-07-19T11:57:08.947-07:002012-07-19T11:57:08.947-07:00I say it depends on the child, My son is an Aspie ...I say it depends on the child, My son is an Aspie but has terrible outburst in school. I decided this year to do the K12 program at home. It is internet based at home with the arent as a couc not the teacher. The teacher is online. Its free in most states and they send you everything the child needs. As far as a special needs school is concerned I am not sure but for my child interaction with other children his age turns quickly from good to bad. I hope this helps a little. Take ques from your child try.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1527055659904040434.post-1471214683856852342012-07-19T11:56:38.600-07:002012-07-19T11:56:38.600-07:00I sometimes wish we had a choice. There is a schoo...I sometimes wish we had a choice. There is a school for the gifted about an hour away, but with it's 10k/year price tag, we wouldn't be able to afford college. We are lucky that our son is in the GT program at his school and thrives on GT days. The most challenging part for him on the other days is boredom and boundaries.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com